Overthinking

 Overthinking is the biggest cause of unhappiness.

Here are the 8 ways you can beat overthinking:

1. The problem is rarely the problem.

99% of the harm is caused in your head, by you anf your thoughts.

1% of the harm is caused by reality, what actually happens and outcome.

Most of the time, the problem isn't the problem. The way you think about the problem is. 

2. Avoid self-rejection.

Don't think you deserve that opportunity? Apply for it anyways.

Don't think your article is good enough? Publish it anyways.

Don't think they'll reply to your emai? Send it anyways.

Never overthink yourself into self-rejection.

3. Silence and time.

The truth is, most problems aren't solved with more thiking, they're solved with less.

You'll find most of the answers you're looking for in silence, in timeband with a clear mind.

If you can't solve a problem, stop trying to.

4. An important question.

When you start criticising yourself for past mistake, or seeing disaster around every corner, ask yourself:

"Is there anything I can do right now to change the past or to positively influence the future."

If the answer is yes, do it take action.

If the answer is no, be at peace let ot go.

You have to take action or let it go, everything else is self-harm.

5. The power of now.

You're not going to overthink your way to a better future. 

You're not going to overthink your way to better past.

All you have is now.

And what you do with Now can make right of your past and make good of your future.

Make peace with yesterday, let go of tomorrow, grab hold of now.

6. Fact check your own thoughts.

Your thoughts will create scenarios in your mind that reflect your insecurities, fears and worries.

So it's important to always fact-check your own thoughts before accepting them, because in highly emotional situations, your thoughts will tell you stories that aren't true.

7. Acceptance is peace.

No amount of anxiety will change your future, no amount of regret will change your past.

Peace is found in acceptance:

- Accept imperfection.

- Accept uncertainly.

- Accept the uncontrollable.

You don't have to understand, tolerate or even forget something, but if you want peace, you must accept it.

8. Health starts in your mind.

You can go to the gym, eat healthy, do yoga, drink water and take vitamins, but if you don't directly confront the negativity in your thoughts, you will never truly be "healthy".

Our health isn't measured on scales, by the size of our muscle or by the width of our waist.

True health is measured by quality of our thoughts and peacefulness of our mind.